A Guide to a Celebrant-Led Funeral
Saying goodbye to a loved one is no simple task. It is very personal and incredibly meaningful. You’ll have so much weighing on you, including how to commemorate their life in a way that feels right. It is only right to want to honour the beautiful life that they led in the best way possible.
If you’re thinking that a regular old religious service won’t quite cut it, then you should try a personalised touch. This could be the better alternative, especially if you don’t want any references to a specific faith. This alternative is having a celebrant-led funeral.
What Is A Funeral Celebrant?
If you’ve not heard of them before, funeral celebrants are the primary host of a funeral or a celebration of life. It is their role to officiate the service. They are also quite versatile, as you can choose a religious or a non-religious one. In fact, it is one advantage that they offer, which makes them a great alternative.
With a funeral celebrant, you have the opportunity to weave in whatever you feel will pay homage to your loved one. They’ll have no faith-based restrictions. An independent funeral celebrant, in particular, will go out of their way to accommodate any wishes you might have. You could even include a prayer, hymn or poem for the person who has died if you wish. They’ll strive to accommodate your feelings.
This could be quite the relief as you’ll be free to celebrate and honour your loved one in a way that you deem perfect. With a celebrant-led funeral, you can create a cathartic celebration that perfectly encompasses the memory of your loved one who has passed away.
How Can A Funeral Celebrant Help You with The Funeral?
Apart from their primary role, which is to lead and officiate the ceremony, there are other ways a funeral celebrant can help you. One of those ways is that they’ll be a support in your time of grief. A funeral celebrant will typically carry out the following alongside their officiating duties:
Be A Point of Support
From the very first meeting to the end of the service, a funeral celebrant will be there for you. They’ll offer you support and guidance when you need it. Do you want someone who is experienced to talk to about the challenges you’re facing with the funeral? Then they’ll be there to listen. If you need to talk about your loved one who has passed or even shed a few tears, they’ll be there too.
Even when you’re overwhelmed and can’t find the words to speak. When you just need to be around someone whose presence reassures you that you’re not alone, your funeral celebrant will be there. They’ll be more than happy to sit by you and not say any words. You deserve to have someone who you know is in your corner this way.
They’ll Understand Your Wishes
A funeral celebrant will be ready to spend time understanding your vision for the event. They’ll make sure they understand the wishes of you and your family. They’ll also ensure that it is carried out to the letter. Do you want to give a few speeches with inside jokes at the funeral? They’ll make it happen. If you also want a solemn event with barely any words spoken, they’ll make sure you get it.
They’ll Communicate Effectively
There’s something about losing a loved one that wakes us to the harsh reality that you are not in control of everything. Working with someone who doesn’t accommodate that can be difficult. Your funeral celebrant will ask for your input and keep you in the loop at all times. They’ll also share with you the details for the service and how it’ll run so that you’ll never feel out of control.
Having a funeral celebrant could be a much-needed succour at a time like this. You’ll definitely need the respite in the days to come. So, have you contacted one yet?
If you need a funeral celebrant in or around Essex or London, you should reach out to me. Here at Special Moments Celebrant, I count it a privilege to walk by and assist people just like you. I also always try my best to be kind, inclusive and considerate. So, contact me and let’s work on how we can best honour your loved one.